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A Hidden Talent January 14, 2013

Posted by Mrs Weird Scientist in Brain Power, Human Body, Psychology and Behavior, Think About It.
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I’ll bet you have something you’re really good at. Maybe you’re a whiz in school, a fabulous actor or you’re great at shooting hoops on the basketball court. We all have talents. But some of us are hiding these talents from others.

Research shows that kids are avoiding fun stuff like sports because they fear being teased.

Yet, it seems strange to hide something that we’re good at and probably like a lot. Doesn’t it make sense to enjoy the compliments and appreciation from those who get to experience our talents?

Sadly, that’s not always the case. Instead of kind words, some children bully others for their talents.

Held Back By Fear

A new survey by the Anti-Bullying Alliance in the United Kingdom (UK) shows that kids sometimes hide their talents to avoid being bullied. More than 90 percent of kids in the UK have been bullied or seen someone being bullied for their talents or intelligence. Clearly, bullies can pick on all sorts of things about a person – their talents being one of them.

In fact, a whopping nearly half of the kids who answered the survey said they had played down their talent because they were scared of being bullied. Worse still, more than a quarter actually stopped doing something they liked because they were scared of being teased about it.

Missing Out

One in five girls purposefully downplayed their ability at maths to avoid being made fun of, while one in 10 boys did the same. Other kids stopped singing, playing sports and participating in dancing or drama.

But wait, it doesn’t stop there. Kids who hide their talents can ultimately end up missing out on school classes, failing courses, dropping out of sports and more. Basically, they will narrow down all their choices of potentially fun and rewarding activities.

If you’re good at a subject in school, don’t let your fears of what others think stop you. Embrace your talent!

Bring Talents Out Of Hiding

It’s bad enough that bullying leaves kids feeling rotten and can lead to depression and other problems. When you’re left feeling like you can’t enjoy and make the most of your talent, life loses some of its spark.

If you feel scared to follow your talents because you’re worried of what people will say, try talking to a trusted adult for support.

Also, find out how you can cope with bullying by visiting the Anti-Bullying Alliance website. Here, you will find loads of tips to help you deal with bullying at school and elsewhere.

Tips for ages 5-11

Tips for ages 11-16

Tips for ages 16+

Comments»

1. Alan - January 18, 2013

It’s sad that children will not be proud and show their talents in fear of bullying. I’ve experienced bullying first hand and I can understand wanting to float under the radar. I hope studies like these and anti bullying campaigns help kids realize that behaviour like that is very damaging. A great article and also very a current and necessary topic. Thanks!

2. Mrs Weird Scientist - March 9, 2013

Thanks for the comment. I too hope these studies help to spread awareness of bullying and how it affects kids.


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